fix(pairing): accept positional provider args

docs/providers/discord.md

@@ -22,7 +22,7 @@ Status: ready for DM and guild text channels via the official Discord bot gatewa
    - If you prefer env vars, still add `discord: { enabled: true }` to `~/.clawdbot/clawdbot.json` and set `DISCORD_BOT_TOKEN`.
 5. Direct chats: use `user:<id>` (or a `<@id>` mention) when delivering; all turns land in the shared `main` session. Bare numeric IDs are ambiguous and rejected.
 6. Guild channels: use `channel:<channelId>` for delivery. Mentions are required by default and can be set per guild or per channel.
-7. Direct chats: secure by default via `discord.dm.policy` (default: `"pairing"`). Unknown senders get a pairing code (expires after 1 hour); approve via `clawdbot pairing approve --provider discord <code>`.
+7. Direct chats: secure by default via `discord.dm.policy` (default: `"pairing"`). Unknown senders get a pairing code (expires after 1 hour); approve via `clawdbot pairing approve discord <code>`.
    - To keep old “open to anyone” behavior: set `discord.dm.policy="open"` and `discord.dm.allowFrom=["*"]`.
    - To hard-allowlist: set `discord.dm.policy="allowlist"` and list senders in `discord.dm.allowFrom`.
    - To ignore all DMs: set `discord.dm.enabled=false` or `discord.dm.policy="disabled"`.

docs/providers/imessage.md

@@ -86,8 +86,8 @@ DMs:
 - Default: `imessage.dmPolicy = "pairing"`.
 - Unknown senders receive a pairing code; messages are ignored until approved (codes expire after 1 hour).
 - Approve via:
-  - `clawdbot pairing list --provider imessage`
-  - `clawdbot pairing approve --provider imessage <CODE>`
+  - `clawdbot pairing list imessage`
+  - `clawdbot pairing approve imessage <CODE>`
 - Pairing is the default token exchange for iMessage DMs. Details: [Pairing](/start/pairing)
 
 Groups:

docs/providers/signal.md

@@ -45,8 +45,8 @@ DMs:
 - Default: `signal.dmPolicy = "pairing"`.
 - Unknown senders receive a pairing code; messages are ignored until approved (codes expire after 1 hour).
 - Approve via:
-  - `clawdbot pairing list --provider signal`
-  - `clawdbot pairing approve --provider signal <CODE>`
+  - `clawdbot pairing list signal`
+  - `clawdbot pairing approve signal <CODE>`
 - Pairing is the default token exchange for Signal DMs. Details: [Pairing](/start/pairing)
 - UUID-only senders (from `sourceUuid`) are stored as `uuid:<id>` in `signal.allowFrom`.
 

docs/providers/slack.md

@@ -224,7 +224,7 @@ For fine-grained control, use these tags in agent responses:
 
 ## DM security (pairing)
 - Default: `slack.dm.policy="pairing"` — unknown DM senders get a pairing code (expires after 1 hour).
-- Approve via: `clawdbot pairing approve --provider slack <code>`.
+- Approve via: `clawdbot pairing approve slack <code>`.
 - To allow anyone: set `slack.dm.policy="open"` and `slack.dm.allowFrom=["*"]`.
 
 ## Group policy

docs/providers/telegram.md

@@ -151,8 +151,8 @@ Private topics (DM forum mode) also include `message_thread_id`. Clawdbot:
 ### DM access
 - Default: `telegram.dmPolicy = "pairing"`. Unknown senders receive a pairing code; messages are ignored until approved (codes expire after 1 hour).
 - Approve via:
-  - `clawdbot pairing list --provider telegram`
-  - `clawdbot pairing approve --provider telegram <CODE>`
+  - `clawdbot pairing list telegram`
+  - `clawdbot pairing approve telegram <CODE>`
 - Pairing is the default token exchange used for Telegram DMs. Details: [Pairing](/start/pairing)
 
 ### Group access

docs/providers/whatsapp.md

@@ -39,7 +39,7 @@ Use a **separate phone number** for Clawdbot. Best UX, clean routing, no self-ch
 
 **Pairing mode (optional):**
 If you want pairing instead of allowlist, set `whatsapp.dmPolicy` to `pairing`. Unknown senders get a pairing code; approve with:
-`clawdbot pairing approve --provider whatsapp <code>`
+`clawdbot pairing approve whatsapp <code>`
 
 ### Personal number (fallback)
 Quick fallback: run Clawdbot on **your own number**. Message yourself (WhatsApp “Message yourself”) for testing so you don’t spam contacts. Expect to read verification codes on your main phone during setup and experiments. **Must enable self-chat mode.**
@@ -95,7 +95,7 @@ on outbound replies.
 - Status/broadcast chats are ignored.
 - Direct chats use E.164; groups use group JID.
 - **DM policy**: `whatsapp.dmPolicy` controls direct chat access (default: `pairing`).
-  - Pairing: unknown senders get a pairing code (approve via `clawdbot pairing approve --provider whatsapp <code>`; codes expire after 1 hour).
+  - Pairing: unknown senders get a pairing code (approve via `clawdbot pairing approve whatsapp <code>`; codes expire after 1 hour).
   - Open: requires `whatsapp.allowFrom` to include `"*"`.
   - Self messages are always allowed; “self-chat mode” still requires `whatsapp.allowFrom` to include your own number.